I am one of the very few women in India who have never been alone to their pihar (mother’s house) after their wedding, and who have never stayed put there for weeks on end, leave alone months. In the three-and-a-half-years in which the OH and I have been married, I have been to Ahmedabad for a grand total of 3 times, always for about 5-6 days, always with the OH. My parents have visited Bangalore a couple of times, and have stayed for a few months, so we have kept meeting consistently.
This is set to be remedied soon. I am off to Ahmedabad the next weekend, for a week, all alone. This will be my first ‘single’ holiday after my wedding, and that excites me – sadist, the OH tells me. π I know I am going the miss the man sorely. Twice out of my 3 visits to Ahmedabad, he has managed to land at my parents’ house before me, and has come to receive me at the airport. He loves to needle me by telling me that he has already tasted the ‘specials’ that Amma has prepared for me and that they are yummy. Darn the man! (I have always found later, though, that he has refused to eat without me each time in spite of repeated protests from my parents, because it is rightfully my house and I should be the first to taste the special dishes and comment on them. :P) I am going to miss all that needling, for sure.
I have set about making a list of all the things that I want to do in Ahmedabad, and it just doesn’t seem to be ending. I don’t even know if all of that is going to be possible in a week’s time, but I am sure going to try. Meanwhile, I also want to relax at home, talk endlessly with my family, meet friends and sleep till I lose all the stress that has been piling up on me of late. There is a horde of places that I want to visit and a series of food items that I want to get reacquainted with, from very specific places in the city. I have realised, in the course of my planning, that I have never really ‘seen’ Ahmedabad as a tourist. I have never really explored the various parts of the city as a tourist would do – thinking that I could visit them any day. I hope I rectify that during this visit.
I plan to visit the places that the OH and I visited on his first trip to see me before marriage (those where the days when we were still a very shy couple and did not know much about each other). I plan to (ahem!) wear the same dress that I was wearing then, to try and recreate a bit of that magic. π Yes, I am silly like that!
Amma has strictly instructed me not to bring anything – not even clothes – from Bangalore, and to just come with 2 big, empty bags. Apparently, she has readied a lot of things to be stuffed into these bags, and she wants to make sure that I carry them all. Appa is busy making his own list of all the eatables he is going to get me while I am there, and all the places that he wants to take me to. Patti is eagerly looking forward to see me and talk to me. Oh, and the OH has given me his own list of all the things that he wants me to get from Ahmedabad, too. In the midst of all this, I am just hoping I don’t end up looking like an inflated balloon when I am back.
I know I am going to be there for just a week, that time will fly, and that I am only going to my parents’ house, but I am fraught with a lot of different emotions at the moment. I hope the visit turns out great. Fingers crossed.
I’m one of those women too π post marriage I think it was quiet a long time since I went alone to pihar but yet not for a long time π
I’m late in coming here wishing you fun filled trip,which I know you had π
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@Scribby
Arre, I am one of those who hardly went to pihar, leave alone alone. π
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Going to AHmedabad?
I AM JEALOUS!
But hey have fun π
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@Smita
Hellooooooo… I am going home after 7 months!! Please don’t be jealous, okie? π¦
Thank you! π
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have fun! enjoy your stay. π
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@Titaxy
Thanks, Titaxy! π
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Have a wonderful time with your family and enjoy your trip!! Eat, sleep and enjoy!!
I can’t wait to visit Bangalore in November!!
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@Sushe571
Thank you!
BTW could you please share the link to your blog?
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I don’t blog. Sorry π¦
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Have a wonderful week with your family and I hope you get to enjoy every bit of it π Take care!!!!
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@Glimpsesandglances
Thank you so much! π I hope so, too!
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I’m sure you’ll have a blast! Take care…
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@Sumitra
Thank you so much, Sumitra! π
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Enjoy your well deserved break π Have a good time.
OH is such a sweet guy.. Awww..
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@Methrebel
Thank you! π
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have loads and loads of fun.. but the way u described about OH going ahead and waiting for you is making me feel more jealous than the actual trip of urs to AHM.. :)..
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@Ashreyamom
Yeah, he is a sweetheart that way! π
Thank you so much! π
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Ah! Enjoy your stay and looks like you will need to pay extra baggage with the amount of stuff you will be bringing back π Have fun!
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@Lifeslittletwists
Thank you! π
For all you know, I might end up paying extra baggage. π
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Wow, you are going to Ahmedabad, Enjoy π
I know that feeling of excitement….
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@Techie2Mom
Thank you, Techie2Mom. π
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Wow
Have a great time, gorge on all your favourites and have a relaxing vacation π
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@Visha
Thank you so much, Visha! π
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Wow! Have a great time at home TGND π Going home is such a big break from regular life. I always come back so refreshed after a trip to my parents place π
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@Lifesong
Thank you so much, Lifesong! π
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Have a great time in amdavad :))
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@Aparna
Thanks, Aparna! π
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When you stay away from home, going back is such a picnic. π
And then all that stuff which you bring back believeing that it will last forever but gets finished off before you can blink. π
Enjoy yourself.
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@Amit
Thank you so much! π
As for the stuff that gets finished in a blink – true, that!
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Wishing you a fab trip!!
Eat and enjoy nicely!! π
have fun TGND!
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@Pixie
Thank you so much, Pixie! π
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Gah! I am jealous…thats all I have to say hmpf!
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@R’s Mom
Arre.. Please don’t be jealous yaar. π¦ I am going home after 8 whole months! π¦
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Have fun girl and hope you get to cross off all the items on your list!! And it is so true.. we never really see our own city (whatever we call as our city) in the real touristy way π
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@Simran
Thank you, Simran. π
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I am glad you are going there alone π have fun. I am sure you will be back with lot of things to share.
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@Jas
Thank you! π I am sure I will do, too. π
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aah the bliss of visiting parents and the misery of leaving the man alone ! I am sure the time would fly and your parents are gonna pamper you silly- ENJOY
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@Priya Sreeram
Thank you, Priya! π
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You lucky lucky lady! π Have loads of fun and I so so know how your parents must be waiting to stuff your bags and then all the talking and eating and revisiting memories and hugging paati! – wow! π
TGND – I am surprised that I am not feeling a wee bit jealous π Ah, not really. I do feel jealous π
Have a wonderful time π
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@Kismi
Thank you, dearie! π
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Oh, that’s such a nice thing. Well, I’m married for quite a few years but nothing beats going to mom’s place alone and being pampered to bits. Now of course even if the hubby does not come, I have to share all the love and attention with my kids #justsaying. Enjoy your stay home:)
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@Chattywren
Thank you! π
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sounds like an amazing plan. have fun π
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@Dauntlessdaisy
Thank you! π
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Aww..that’s so sweet of OH to wait for you to taste all the delicacies your mum makes for you guys π
Here’s wishing you have a fantastic trip and bring along loads of pictures and fond memories for us to read.
Please pass on my regards & get well soon wishes to your parents and grandma π
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@My Era
Thank you, ME. π Will surely pass on your wishes.
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